I’m moody as fuck so if you want a relationship/friendship with me understand that there will be days that I will not care for your presence even though you did nothing wrong followed by days where you’ll be the only person that I want to talk to despite having nothing to say.
this is me in a text post
nothing has ever been more relevant
Is it my penis or the consentual sex that bothers you?
Disregarding the content of your feminism (that’s a discussion for another day) men who support feminism cannot be feminist any more than straight people who support gay marriage can be LGBTQ. Feminism is for and about women. Why would you want to take away the only space where men are auxiliary to women?
You are a Feminist-ally at best.
What do we think, people? Help me out. Can I be a feminist, or only a feminist-ally?
Feminism has nothing to do with the state of your genitals. Feminism is a political and philosophical movement dedicated to bringing about full equality of the sexes and dismantling the current patriarchical structures, and if you support that, you are a feminist. It doesn’t matter what gender you identify as. IF YOU SUPPORT THE FEMINIST PHILOSOPHY THEN YOU ARE A FEMINIST.
And the comparison with queer allies is the most asinine, uninformed and laughable thing I’ve ever read.
As I was reading this I started getting really upset and formulating responses, but stupidsexyenjorlas said everything I want to say. Men can ABSOLUTELY be feminists. He wasn’t even trying to step over women’s voices in the feminist movement with his responses. He specifically asked “Can I be a feminist, or only a feminist-ally?” which means he is willing to let women speak for the movement. He’s not even guilty of stepping over us, here. The anger at this guy is crazy man.
The comparison between “men can’t be feminists!” to “straight people can’t be LGBTQIA+” is really pissing me off. Feminism is a movement, a political and sociological ideology. LGBTQIA+ is an integral part of one’s identity. False comparison.
Male feminists ARE allies. They are allies to WOMEN. That is their role in feminism, and it does not make them less of feminists.
Reblogging for added relevant commentary
when u reblog the ask meme and get none
when u put out an open rp and no one responds
when u have no one to rp with
but when u have that one person who always responds and send u the ask meme